As a lifelong people pleaser, Honey Wyatt thought going celibate would stop her going along with whatever her partner wanted during sex. The truth, she discovers, is more complicated, so she unpacks her experience trying to unravel a habit that is hard to break

We’ve all heard of the benefits of meditating – it helps you relax and clears your mind. But what if masturbating could do the same, and help you get to sleep? Charlie Elizabeth Culverhouse explores the benefits of masturbating before bed, and unpacks why no one is talking about it

We’ve all heard about the benefits of focusing on our breath in our day to day life. But what happens when we tap into our breathing while being intimate with someone? Nathalie Romero explores how breathing can enhance our sexual pleasure.

Anyone who’s grown up in the age of internet porn will know – either first hand or from friends – that it’s not uncommon for someone you’re sleeping with to attempt to choke or slap you. But how do we set boundaries around these acts? Honey Wyatt asks sex therapist Bima Loxley for advice. 

Whether you’re a ‘jump someone’s bones’ or ‘sit back and wait for the magic to happen’ kinda person, initiating sex can feel vulnerable and awkward. Lucy Sarret advises different ways to get down to it.

Birds do it. Bees do it. Why can’t humans fantasise about doing it? Sex editor Honey Wyatt explores the breeding kink, from what it is, to misconceptions around it, and how people stop themselves actually getting pregnant

Praised for its supposed ability to intensify female pleasure, the speed bump has become the latest trending sex position. Curious about all the fuss, Amelia Reynolds tries it out and reports back with the results.

In TMIK, people tell us their real stories about those moments when everything becomes clear. This time, writer Fiona Fletcher Reid recalls when she first realised she was gay - as told to Lucy Sarret.

As the nights get longer, and we spend more time cosying up under blankets with twinkling fairy lights and crackling fireplaces, there’s no better time for getting in the mood. To help you set the scene for a sexy festive season, our sex editors compile a last-minute gift guide for (literally) giving and receiving this holiday season.

Strokers, suckers and edging. Deputy sex editor Amelia Reynolds talks with experts about how to upgrade your masturbation sessions.

Spells, potions, and…orgasms? (Oh my!) Sex editor Honey Wyatt speaks to professional witch, Sunshine, to find out what sex magick really is, and how it can be used to manifest change

Panting, moaning, a build up and then…nothing. In the heat of sex, it can be disappointing when an orgasm just isn’t happening for you or your partner. Honey Wyatt asks experts why sometimes we just can’t come, and what to do about it

Welcome to The Last Time… our bi-weekly anonymous diary that looks into the last time our audience did something totally Sextras. This week, our deputy sex editor Amelia Reynolds speaks to a twenty-something gay man about his experience having a threesome on holiday.

Celibacy has been all the rage for the last couple of years, but it can be daunting when you inevitably want to have sex again. Ex-celibate Honey Wyatt asks experts what to keep in mind when ending your sex-free lifestyle

A look into the kink taking the internet by storm. Amelia Reynolds talks with sex experts to find out what a praise kink is, where it comes from, and how to explore it