What’s in and out in the world of relationships, singlehood and casual dating in October ‘24? The editorial team at Sextras weighs in – from holiday romances to blindsiding, and the new rules for rejection

Relationships editor Lucy Sarret asks if a friendship post-breakup is realistic.

More and more of us are refusing to put up with negative mates who ruin our vibes, according to the latest hot take circulating on TikTok. But, if the solution is dumping your friends, where’s the line between protecting your peace and being a bitch?

Studies show that people are more likely to go to their older sibling than their parents for sex advice. Lucy Sarret explains how her big sister’s advice helped her navigate adulthood.

Ever had a friend drop off the face of the Earth when they get into a relationship? Relationship coach Kelley Nele explains how to deal with it - and why she doesn’t.

Sextras reviews Soulmate Social, a personalised dating experience that promises to get you a snog (if not your soulmate), and speaks to its founder Breagha Campbell about the inspiration behind mass set-ups (mostly, death to The Apps™).

Queer Nigerian writer Obinna Tony-Francis Ochem opens up about how his platonic bonds with both men and women have influenced his journey towards accepting his sexuality, from childhood to the present day.

In the age of social media, it’s become totally normal to keep tabs on people we don’t know, like they’re little Sims characters in our lives. But why do people drive themselves crazy doing this with their partner’s ex? Honey Wyatt investigates.

In an increasingly open dating pool, Lucy Sarret explores the complicated dynamics of age gap relationships - and whether the criticism is justified.

If your January goals include picking less fights with your partner, deputy relationships editor Dani Clarke is here to help. Experts and Sextras readers weigh in on what couples argue about, why, and how to cut down on quarrels in the new year

You'll sweat a lot, but not in a sexual way – or, at least, not at the beginning – with this trend that blends dating with working out. Edgary Rodríguez talks to experts about the benefits of fitness-focused romance

Dani Clarke explores the difficulties queer people of different cultural backgrounds face when choosing to sever (or not to sever) family ties

As the world opens up to different types of love, many people have opened their relationships to the possibility of something or someone new.

It’s an all-girl party, crafting optional. Charlie Elizabeth Culverhouse explores the meaning, madness, and psychology behind the ladies’ pastime turned TikTok trend.

If you’re finally ready to abandon toxic relationships, here are the first things to stop doing according to the experts.

Younger generations are learning from their parents’ mistakes and building more sustainable, lasting relationships.

What happens when you find a deeper connection with someone who isn’t your partner?

Male friendships are bound by masculinity stereotypes and structures - making it harder for men to open up.