Whether you’re a ‘jump someone’s bones’ or ‘sit back and wait for the magic to happen’ kinda person, initiating sex can feel vulnerable and awkward. Lucy Sarret advises different ways to get down to it.

In TMIK, people tell us their real stories about those moments when everything becomes clear. This time, writer Fiona Fletcher Reid recalls when she first realised she was gay - as told to Lucy Sarret.