Firsts

What’s your first time having sex like?

• Hear our listeners’ stories about their first time having sex

• Stories of our first kisses, first relationships and losing our virginities

• How our first times affected the rest of our dating and sex lives

Is the first time having sex always awkward?

There’s always a first time for everything, so let’s talk about it. First times can be sloppy, not everyone has the candlelit-stare-into-each-other’s-eyes anecdote to last through the ages. For some, it may happen in an abandoned tennis court in the middle of the day, and that’s okay!

We begin the episode by hearing from our listeners about their first time having sex, and laugh at the awkwardness of so many of the stories. The first time having sex expectations can be high, but looking back on it, we all had pretty disappointing experiences, and that’s okay.

We then move on to question the concept of virginity and what 'losing it’ means to us as two bisexual girls. We share the lessons learnt in first relationships and discuss the rush of first love. We dip our toe into other firsts: orgasm, one night stands, masturbating, kissing and share some of our personal stories so you can get to know us better through our tales of sex and all the extras.

If you’re going to have sex for the first time, don’t forget you should only do it on your terms and when you’re ready. It’s so easy to feel the pressure of needing to have sex to ‘fit in’ or seem more mature, or even because you think it’s going to be a picture-perfect experience like you see in the movies. No matter how you do it, it probably won’t go how you planned, so have fun and be safe!