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You asked, we answered! This week, @lucysarret ponders the timeless question of how long you should wait before dating after a relationship ends. Some people feel VERY strongly about this. Can you be swayed?

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For our latest relationships piece, @obynofranc shares his experiences as a queer Nigerian man via the friendships he craves as well as those that have shaped him along the way

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And just like that… Clothes encounters returns for its second edition! This time, social media editor @katie.ross (hi) gets deep into her love/hate relationship with her ever evolving collection of clothes, shoes, bags and bonnets (?)

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Just try not to think about the fact that they were graduating uni when you were an infant and it’ll be fine, right? Our relationships @lucysarret can answer that one for you x

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A very good question! And you’re right, what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas EXCEPT when @lucysarret is on the case. For your eyes only!

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PSA: your sex life isn’t over, it may just need a little zhuzh! @lucysarret explains how you can extract the remaining spice from your sex life and make it new again. Phew!

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Dear reader,

People are quick to judge when you move on too fast for their liking, when really it’s none of their business. You shouldn’t mould your behaviour to their expectations.

The truth is, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to when it is okay to move on after a breakup.

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