Talking to My Ex Girlfriend

In this week’s episode we’re talking with Honey’s ex girlfriend, Neha, all about their relationship and break up.

We begin the episode by hearing about both sides of the relationship, from how they met to how the relationship progressively got worse and eventually how they broke up. If you’ve been listening to the podcast for a while, you’ll know that Honey has spoken about how her first relationship was quite toxic, and so we break down exactly what that looked like in a young queer relationship, and how that has affected them going forward.

We reminisce on the importance of having a queer community when you’re younger, and how there’s not much of a model for relationships so they can often get messy. We hear how their mental health impacted the relationship, and how this meant they triggered each other whilst dating, and warn against the dangers of codependency in a relationship. Maria also gives her perspective on the relationship from the outside, though she was very much involved at the time, and how it seemed to disintegrate.

We also cover how the break up eventually happened- they did break up and get back together several times- and the difficulties that came along with seeing your ex every day when you go to the same school. Lastly, we cover how they went from exes to friends, and the progression of making up after a break up and realising what you’ve done wrong and what you’ve learnt from a relationship.

Listen in to hear us cover all sorts of things, from staying friends with an ex, to coming out as queer, to toxic relationships and different sides of the same break up.

We hope you enjoy the episode, we really enjoyed recording with Neha and we hope you’re inspired to have a similar conversation with your ex, should it be right for your situation!

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