• Hear when our followers feel their most sexy

• Discuss our own issues with self confidence and sex and body confidence with a new partner particularly

• Try to find out how to feel sexy during sex

Getting naked in front of someone can be pretty scary— so much so that we end up spending the entire time thinking about whether we groomed our pubes to perfection rather than actually enjoying the sex itself. In this episode we discuss how to feel confident and sexy during sex, and how often confidence is sexy.

We begin this week’s episode with a segment where we hear from our listeners about when they feel the most sexy, and we acknowledge that feeling sexy doesn’t necessarily have to involve being sexual. We have a chat about the little pressures and insecurities that build up when in sexual situations, like whether your body looks good, or whether your vagina is ‘normal’.

We disclose our personal struggles with finding confidence during sex and being able to feel sexy, particularly to feel sexy naked. Body confidence with a new partner can be difficult, but it’s important to remember that the person you’re having sex with is there because they already find you attractive! Self confidence in sex is super important, both to help you relax and enjoy the sex you’re having. Time and time again from people we talk to that when it comes to finding someone attractive and sexy, confidence is more important than looks, so just fake it until you feel sexy!

Perhaps what leads to better sex is recognising your own sexiness and letting that play out when you’re being vulnerable with someone else. Otherwise, you can fake body confidence till you make it for the time being!