I think I’m bisexual…

• How can you tell if you’re bisexual?

• Some of the struggles of being bi- not being “gay enough” or “straight enough”

• How we became comfortable in our bisexuality and how you can become comfortable being bi too!

How to know if you are bisexual

In this week's episode we take you through our experience as bisexual girls. We talk about the first times we ever heard of the term 'bisexual' and how we first started identifying with it, or questioning our sexuality. The bisexual identity can be difficult to come to terms with because often you are left in a limbo of not being 'straight enough' or 'gay enough'. This can bring forward a lot of confusion, we share how we often have felt like impostors, how maybe we are just saying we like girls for attention, and similar internalised biphobic tendencies.

Since we have both been in relationships with men, we speak about how that can be difficult when identifying our bisexuality, how the 'gay world' and the 'straight world' seem to fail to coexist sometimes, and how for someone who is part of both it can sometimes feel like the world doesn't have a place for bisexuals.

We talk about how dating men and women can feel so different, and how lucky bisexuals are that we get to experience both and whether we fear 'missing out' on dating girls or dating guys once we settle down with one person.

Ultimately, we complain about all the hard stuff that comes along with being bisexual, yet we both agree we would not want it any other way.

Love the way you are! No matter who you love. We love you.

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