tips on navigating the sh*tshow of modern dating and relationships – from family dynamics and friendships, to the long term, long distance, low commitment, casual girlfriend (and everything in between!)
Gen Z are ditching their insecure friends. But are they monsters?
More and more of us are refusing to put up with negative mates who ruin our vibes, according to the latest hot take circulating on TikTok. But, if the solution is dumping your friends, where’s the line between protecting your peace and being a bitch?
What my older sister taught me about sex
Studies show that people are more likely to go to their older sibling than their parents for sex advice. Lucy Sarret explains how her big sister’s advice helped her navigate adulthood.
Why I’ve decided to cut off friends who ghost me for a guy
Ever had a friend drop off the face of the Earth when they get into a relationship? Relationship coach Kelley Nele explains how to deal with it - and why she doesn’t.
I went to a blind dating event – here’s what happened
Sextras reviews Soulmate Social, a personalised dating experience that promises to get you a snog (if not your soulmate), and speaks to its founder Breagha Campbell about the inspiration behind mass set-ups (mostly, death to The Apps™).
The Good, the Bad, the Flirty:The truth and lies behind lesbian dating stereotypes
Deputy relationships editor Dani Clarke investigates whether the Sapphic stereotypes of yesteryear still have a place in the modern landscape of WLW relationships, from U-Hauling to slow burn
The friendships that shaped me, as a queer Nigerian man
Queer Nigerian writer Obinna Tony-Francis Ochem opens up about how his platonic bonds with both men and women have influenced his journey towards accepting his sexuality, from childhood to the present day.
Why are we so obsessed with our partners’ exes?
In the age of social media, it’s become totally normal to keep tabs on people we don’t know, like they’re little Sims characters in our lives. But why do people drive themselves crazy doing this with their partner’s ex? Honey Wyatt investigates.
Mind the gap: is dating someone older really a problem?
In an increasingly open dating pool, Lucy Sarret explores the complicated dynamics of age gap relationships - and whether the criticism is justified.
How to argue less (or better) in 2024
If your January goals include picking less fights with your partner, deputy relationships editor Dani Clarke is here to help. Experts and Sextras readers weigh in on what couples argue about, why, and how to cut down on quarrels in the new year
Fating: from plain old hookups to dating your way to better health
You'll sweat a lot, but not in a sexual way – or, at least, not at the beginning – with this trend that blends dating with working out. Edgary Rodríguez talks to experts about the benefits of fitness-focused romance
How your cultural background influences your coming-out experience
Dani Clarke explores the difficulties queer people of different cultural backgrounds face when choosing to sever (or not to sever) family ties
What is ethical non-monogamy?
As the world opens up to different types of love, many people have opened their relationships to the possibility of something or someone new.
Is 'Girls’ Night' the first time women are actually spending quality time together?
It’s an all-girl party, crafting optional. Charlie Elizabeth Culverhouse explores the meaning, madness, and psychology behind the ladies’ pastime turned TikTok trend.
Top 5 things NOT to do in a healthy relationship
If you’re finally ready to abandon toxic relationships, here are the first things to stop doing according to the experts.
Is Gen Z set to have better marriages?
Younger generations are learning from their parents’ mistakes and building more sustainable, lasting relationships.
The Moment I Knew… I was having an emotional affair
What happens when you find a deeper connection with someone who isn’t your partner?
Why don’t men share with their friends?
Male friendships are bound by masculinity stereotypes and structures - making it harder for men to open up.
Does size *really* matter?
After the chicken and the egg and what happened to Tupac Shakur, whether size matters is the next question on everyone’s minds. Our Roman Empire! But look no further, as Katie Ross finally puts an end to one of life’s great unanswered questions.
The Good, The Bad, The Flirty: Is flirting cheating?
Over two thirds of our audience seems to think that flirting in a relationship counts as cheating. But, Lucy Sarret asks, is it really that serious?